Children seem to pick up and react far more immediately to our emotions than adults seem to. In actual fact adults do too, but they have learned to hide their reactions even to themselves. In one case I was told of children who became particularly argumentative and aggressive around their father. How to help in this situation? Well one thing you could do is to cut cords for the father each night. Probably using the general macros as this would allow love and light beings to cut the cords the father most needed on that day. It is not necessary for you to tell him this is what you are doing for him, however it may increase his healing meter if he knew you were doing healing on him. If he is your partner you can send him alot of healing as you are already very open to each other being partners. I include my partner and children in all cord cutitng I do for myself and any other being. I have a standing order in with love and light beings that states anything they need for their highest good be done without me having to ask.
Coming back to the aggression in the children, when you see them displaying this attitude around their father cut the cords, all that is not love between them and with all aggression and unforgiveness. The father is not creating the aggression in the children he is just causing their own latent aggressive tendancies to arise due to his own anger arising. As you cut more cords for your children and partner, their ability to take more healing goes up. Its like exercise you have to get used to it slowley. We took lifetimes to build up all of these cords, we can't let them all go at once.
The use of the chant means that you will not cut cords uselessly and that you can ask for specific ones that take more chants to cut as these are obviously the ones that need attention right now. If you are finding it hard to know when to stop chanting ask love and light beings for an extra sign that the cord is cut, for instance a cough, an itchy nose, a change in pitch in your voice, get used to the subtle signs your guides are using to communicate. Often the most communication you will get is your thoughts. If you happen to think of cord cutting during the day, you can be assured that it is your guides putting that thought in your head. The more you act on these thoughts the more you will notice them. What we call inspiration is actually our guides using our thoughts as a channel for divine guidance.
Do you keep asking your angels and guides for signs that they are with you and they seem not to be answering. You might be better off to ask for something you are not attached to as a sign, maybe a random act of kindness, somebody giving you a flower or a card or a phone call out of the blue from an old friend, rather than a pile of money. You are way too attached to the pile of money. You are coming from a space of lack when you feel you need money and that space of lack will not create abundance. Like attracts like so to create abundance you must already be living with an awareness of abundance. You need to notice the joy and happiness that is already available to you. The fact that you are not starving and that your worst fears have not happened, ie you can manage the bills and have a roof over your head is reason enough to be happy in this uncertain world of ours. Take this and build on what you already have, not what you don't think you have. Give thanks, and cut with all affirmations of lack which are negative affirmations. Yes we make affirmations all the time only most of them if we do not make a conscious effort to change happen to be negative. For example you must work for every penny, I never have enough to pay my bills, ect ect. After you have cut with these negative beleifs then you can add in positive energy giving affirmations and remember to say this every time you catch yourself on the old track. However to do this you need to maintain a high level of awareness to notice when you are having these thoughts and to correct them when you are having them. At first you are only likely to notice when you are having a "worry fess" but gradually you will notice your thought processes more and more. You create your universe with your thoughts and it's highly important that you begin to take control of them for this is your power house of creation. Each thought creates the next thought so in this way when bad thoughts arise you put the brakes on with cord cutting. Then because you are not used to thinking happy abundant thoughts you need to practice this with affirmations of abundance. Eventually you will notice all your thoughts are being replaced by your natural state of being which is love.
What is love? Love is the state of being able to feel and see and experience beauty right now. Most of the time our minds are filled with such junk that even if we were in the most beautiful spot on earth, with all we desire we would still have minds full of craving and fear that we were about to lose what we had. To realise this state of love the negative thoughts have to slow down and even stop, but there are always thoughts so you must make an effort to replace them with awareness of what is beautiful around you. The mind is like any muscle the more you exercise it the stronger in this pattern it will become.
Do you still think the source of your unhappiness is someone else? Every being who has ever hurt you is actually a wounded aspect of yourself. As you forgive all that have hurt you, you are forgiving yourself and allowing yourself to be whole again. If you have a partner who seems to cause you unhappiness, don't say I will only experience happiness when he / she learns how to treat me, for that is totally giving your power away. When he / she does something that hurts you. Go away cut cords for all the anger and hurt you feel, when you are back to a balanced state, explain to them how they made you feel, because now you are coming from a place of love and you are no longer projecting anger which just makes them throw up the defences. Even if they don't actually listen to you, you will know you did what was necessary to heal yourself and get rid of another layer of anger and resentment. This means if they repeat the action next time you are less likely to be hurt and you have got rid of one layer of old reaction pain. We co create the situation where we can be hurt, we are so used to reacting is certain ways to certain situations that we don't really listen to the person at all we listen to our old reactions to similar situations in the past. In this way we create a self fullfilling prophecy. You need to cut with all this negative expectation and actually listen and act rather than react.
May all beings be happy If you have any comments concerning The Abundance of Light healing technique or the programming of this home page email Alyssa at alyssa@alyssamaryrose.com